Candles Are My Love Language Self Care Candle Gift
Because Sometimes a Candle Says It Better Than Words Ever Could
Look, we all know the five love languages. Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Receiving Gifts, Quality Time, Physical Touch. Terribly sensible, all of them. But let's be honest: there's a rather glorious sixth one that nobody talks about, and it involves lighting something expensive and pretending the world doesn't exist for twenty minutes. This is your permission slip to indulge.
Why Choose Our Self Care Candle
The Design That Gets You: Bold red lettering in a rather fetching retro font declaring what we're all thinking. Candles are my love language. It's relatable, it's funny, and it's the sort of thing that makes you smile every time you see it sitting on your shelf, whether you've burnt it or not.
Naturally Made, Thoughtfully Crafted: Each candle is hand poured using natural soy wax and premium fragrance oils. Nothing synthetic, nothing mass produced, just proper care and attention in our Manchester workshop.
Yours to Customise: You choose the scent. Not that overwhelming supermarket choice thing, but genuine fragrance selection so it becomes something rather personal before it even arrives.
Beautifully Packaged: Hand wrapped in completely recyclable packaging because a gift this lovely deserves to look the part when it lands on someone's doorstep.
Product Details
Composition: Natural soy wax with premium fragrance oil
Creation: Hand poured to order in our Manchester workshop
Packaging: 100 percent recyclable materials, hand finished
Perfect For: Treating yourself without guilt, gift giving that actually lands, or that friend who claims they have everything but really just needs something lovely to light.
Order now and give yourself or someone rather special the gift of an afternoon that doesn't feel quite so chaotic. These do tend to go rather quickly.
SHIPPING + RETURNS
THE RATHER IMPORTANT BITS
This rather lovely piece ships directly from our brand partner - we work with independent brands who are absolutely brilliant and work frightfully hard to create beautiful things.
SHIPPING DESTINATIONS
Now, here's the thing - our wonderful brand partners ship to lots of different places, but not all of them can ship worldwide.
Some are brilliant at international shipping, others prefer to keep things closer to home.
At checkout, you'll see exactly where this particular brand can send your goodies.
We're terribly sorry, but shipping costs do vary rather wildly depending on where you are in the world. The exact figures pop up at checkout - no nasty surprises!
RETURNS
You have 14 days to return items.
Now, we absolutely adore our brand partners - they work incredibly hard and we do try to support them as much as we possibly can. So I'm rather afraid we have to pass the return postage costs back to you. Frightfully sorry about that!
🌍 PLEASE CHOOSE THOUGHTFULLY:
Our wonderful partners put their hearts into everything they make.
Ordering multiple sizes to try at home is rather hard on our planet and makes things jolly difficult for these brilliant independent creators.
When in doubt, do ask us first!
PAYMENT
We're frightfully modern and accept all the usual suspects:
Visa, Mastercard, American Express, PayPal, Apple Pay, Google Pay, and Shop Pay
SECURE AS HOUSES
Everything's properly encrypted and secure - your details are safer than the Crown Jewels!
All prices in lovely British pounds £ GBP, though international chaps will see converted prices.
Any payment pickle? We're here to help sort things out! Contact us
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Hello, we are Sostter....
Sostter began, as all good ideas do, with a lively conversation and a shared sense of frustration. Why had the world of independent design become so serious, so samey, so… beige? Where was the spark, the imagination, the sheer joy of discovering something that made you stop and stare?
We dreamt of a marketplace that celebrated difference — where curious minds could explore a world of independent brands, design-led makers, and thoughtful artisans. A space that felt exciting, human, and beautifully imperfect.
Today, Sostter brings together remarkable people and their creations — from London to Lausanne, Brooklyn to Berlin — uniting makers and discoverers through craftsmanship, creativity, and conscience. Every object tells a story, and every purchase supports an independent brand doing things differently.
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